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Betrayal Story: Looking for advice or insights.
My husband and I have been married for 10 years, together for 15. He has cheated on me for much of those years. From the outside, we are a perfect…
Living Through Betrayal: A Spouse’s Story
I used to believe in fairy tales. Not the kind with castles and dragons, but the kind where two people find each other, fall in love, and build a life…
The Lost Art of Loyalty
I was recently in a relationship and the other person promised to hornor the relationship with their whole chest. I so much believed and trusted their words and in their…
A Journey of Bold Choices and New Insights
In less than a week, I found myself in situations where I didn’t stop to consider the values I hold so dearly. Oh boy… The most surprising part? I don’t…
Be a Different African Parents… Breaking the Cycle: A Call to African Parents for Change
Dear beautiful parents, gifted to us by God, we need you to be different. We know you are carrying trauma passed down through generations, and often you aren’t even aware…
The Cost of Kindness: Escaping the Trap of People-Pleasing
Finding My Voice: Overcoming People-Pleasing to Prioritize Self-Respect Amidst the expectations of familial bliss, my reality was far from it. Growing up as the lone lady among three brothers, one…
The Ex Dilemma: To Stay Friends or Cut Ties?
When a relationship comes to an end, whether it was mutual or unexpected, it can hurt like nothing else. Trust me, I know. Even if you saw it coming or…
The Courage to Say Hello: A Shy Guy’s Guide to Approaching Love
He said hello, and I responded with a smile. He was a fine-looking young man, and we were both at the National Service Secretariat district office to submit our appointment…
Choosing Love over Tradition
He said it’s been five months, three days, 30 minutes, and still counting since I formally sought my fiancée's hand in marriage. After "knocking," as we call it here, her…
Breaking Free from Tradition’s Chains – Honoring Tradition without Losing Ourselves : Tradition a Bridge or a Barrier?
I have no issue with tradition itself; my real problem is with the misconceptions people hold about these traditions, treating them as if they are life-or-death mandates. Is tradition meant…